Sleep Paralysis Visions: Demons, Succubi, and the Archetypal Mind

If you have ever woken up in the middle of the night and found you can’t move, or even cry for help, you have experienced sleep paralysis. If, during this bizarre paralysis, you suddenly felt that someone—or something—was watching you, you have come face to face with the waking hallucination known as the Intruder. And if all this happens and then a ghastly creature resembling a gnome or a night elf crawls onto you to whisper sweet impish nothings into your ear, congratulations, you are one of the lucky ones to know the Incubus.
And you’re not alone.
Sleep Paralysis (SP) and its associated visions, known as hypnagogic hallucinations (HH), are still a mystery to medical science, even though 40% of the world’s population has experienced it at least once in their lives. Although a common symptom of narcolepsy and other sleep disorders, sleep paralysis can also be induced in healthy dreamers due to factors like sleep deprivation, jet lag, or too much cannabis before bed.
Normally in REM sleep, the body is paralyzed to prevent us from acting out our dreams. In sleep paralysis, the REM paralysis persists momentarily after we have “woken up.” But we’re not really awake—rather we are aware in a fugue state in between dreaming and the waking world. We literally project the dreamscape onto the landscape of our sleep environment.
The apparitions associated with sleep paralysis include aliens, angels, and ancestors, depending on your cultural upbringing and your level of fear. Like lucid dreaming, this nightmare is really a co-creation between the dreamer’s (or visionary’s) expectations and the murky-murk of the unconscious or perhaps the collective realms beyond the personal mind.
It’s truly an extraordinary conscious state, but not many people talk about it because to be haunted by demons in the 21st century, this Age of Information, is to be doubly cursed.
I’m not sure what’s more disturbing, though: that around the world millions of people are visited at night by ghoulish entities who want to torment/sleep with us, or that, in a recent diagnostic survey, over half of psychiatrists admitted that they would diagnose a person who reported a typical sleep paralysis dream (can’t move, can’t breathe, stinky demon sitting on the chest) with some kind of psychosis such as schizophrenia.
As Hufford himself has said in an interview in the 2008 documentary Your Worst Nightmare, “We have erased knowledge of these experiences from the cultural repertoire while these experiences are continuing to happen. That’s dramatic. That’s a level of social control that’s very impressive.”
Indeed, sleep paralysis visions are a normal, healthy part of life for thousands of psychics, shamans, and explorers of the deep mind. Like lucid dreams and psychedelic encounters, SP visions present gifts and opportunities, once you get used to all the existential horror, spontaneous kundalini blasts and first chakra freak-fests. My hope is that we can begin to reclaim this lost lexicon and learn from one another about these freaky underworld visions that have helped shape our myths and fairy tales.
What follows is an excerpt from chapter 4 of my ebook Sleep Paralysis: A Dreamer’s Guide. This chapter explores the psychological theories currently in vogue about the Apparition, as well as a quick look into the role sleep paralysis apparitions have played in history.
Excerpt from Chapter 4 of Sleep Paralyis: A Dreamer’s Guide
Psychological Theories about SP Entities
The Threat Vigilance System
Scientists have had little to say about these apparition visions until recently. Current cognitive psychology research suggests that SP with HH triggers a threat-awareness scan in the brain known as the vigilance system. [1] This process is largely unconscious and normally is responsible for identifying possible threats (“What’s that noise?”) and making quick decisions about our physical safety (“Oh, it’s just the cat.”). But in SP/HH, our eyes are open and we are projecting our dreams into physical space. The combination of sensing and imagining makes the system go a little haywire, causing the vigilance system to stay activated because it cannot clarify exactly what the threat is. “Threat!” the system calls, again and again. This, in turn, makes our fear intensify because a part of the brain responsible for intense emotions, the amygdala, is already heightened in this dream state. [2] So we project images of our worst fears into the room, intensifying our fear even further as the Stranger takes form.
It is an escalating fear-vision feedback system that precipitates the apparition beside our bed with its darkened face and evil-feeling presence. We co-create the nightmare without even knowing it.
In my mind, this physical explanation is incomplete, because it doesn’t explain why the triggered vigilance system interprets the vague dream forms as a human-like presence. Why not a tidal wave, an earthquake or an avalanche? After all, these are common themes in many other kinds of nightmares.
Neurotheology and Spirits
This is where the research of anthropologist Michael Winkelman comes in handy. Winkelman suggests that humans are hard-wired to see spirits; it’s part of our genetic make-up. Known as neurotheology [3], this view posits that the universality of seeing spirits does not necessarily mean that “spirits are real,” but certainly that the experiences are authentic, and not just made up by a combination of wishful thinking and cultural loading from myths and fairy tales.
Further, Winkelman suggests that we are predisposed to see human-like spirits because our minds are accustomed to perceiving the world as having qualities like ourselves. When something sudden happens—a peal of thunder—our first assumption is, “Who did that?” So in times of ambiguity, projecting a human-like actor into the scene is our first cognitive line of defense. Why? Maybe because you can try to reason with a Thunder God, but not with nature herself. This has appeal from an evolutionary perspective, because the greatest danger to a human life has never been the tiger or the lion, but social ostracization and abandonment.
Whether or not we accept Winkelman’s hypothesis, neurotheology brings a crucial insight to the worldwide perception of the Stranger apparition: in times of distress, we tend to perceive self-like entities in the world.
Dreams, Archetypes and Entities
Dreams also brings us closer to the unconscious frameworks with which we see the world. REM dreaming is, neurologically speaking, a visionary state of mind. Activation of the limbic system brings strong emotions, combined with an enhanced access to long-term memory—and a depression of short-term memory so we don’t tend to question who or where we are. [4] Add the intense firing of the parts of the brain that brings mental imagery, and you have dreaming: a potent mix of visual-emotional metaphors that link to our deepest memories and experiences.
This neurological basis of SP visions in REM sleep provides additional support for the archetypal psychology of Carl Jung and James Hillman. [5] These depth psychologies address the issue of “visitors” in dream visions as communication between the conscious mind and unconscious processes. These processes are autonomous, occurring on their own accord, whether or not we pay attention to them. However, directing heightened awareness towards these images can quicken the mind’s digestion and integration of these ancient impulses, personal myths, and cultural and familial expectations. Some of the archetypal images that may arise from these deep psychological processes are human figures such as the wise old man and wise woman, and the inner child.
The Shadow
One of Jung and Hillman’s insights into our propensity to create nightmarish figures in dreams and visions is that sometimes we are faced with confrontation images that just will not go away. This is the archetype of the Shadow. Poet Robert Bly calls the shadow everything we don’t want to look at that we threw into a bag long ago. [6] While the shadow can be parts of ourselves that we have disowned (such as greed, weakness, or an undeveloped artistic ability), it can also be something about our culture, our nation’s history, or our socio-economic class that we don’t like to think about. The shadow could express poverty, racism, or a landscape that has been repeatedly stripped of its natural habitats. These unconscious patterns can play out over and over throughout history, as well as in our dreams. [7] In SP visions, sometimes the apparition comes not just to be scary, but to be heard.
Still, we want to be careful not to reduce the apparitions to a symbol or concept. Each meeting is unique, alive, and dynamic. I can tell you from personal experience that the Stranger, or any dream figure, doesn’t take kindly to being called a “representation.” Would you?
Psychic dimensions of SP apparitions
The literature on the connection between hypnagogic hallucinations and psychic effects is pretty vast and comes from many parallel threads. Telepathy, ESP, and mutual dreams have been cited in religious texts and accounts, 19th century spiritualism and occult texts, and in modern controlled studies. In general, dream researchers who look at this aspect of dreaming suggest that hypnagogia (and its sister state in sleep awakening, hypnopompia) seem to be “more conducive to telepathy,” as Simon Sherwood reports in his 2002 meta-analysis. [8]
Neurology, of course, does not really provide much support of this topic, except to say that HH are more similar in brain activation to trance states than ordinary dreaming. [9] Heightened alpha brain waves are reported in SP/HH, [10] just as with OBEs, and some forms of deep meditation, all of which are correlated with psi accounts. Field anthropologists who study indigenous peoples have also reported numerous anomalous “psi” events, usually saving their declaration after they secure tenure or retire. [11] These events, while hard to replicate in a lab, become an accepted part of life for those who are remain open to uncanny and bizarre experiences such as synchronicity and precognitive dreams.
Sleep Paralysis and Place: A Geologic Hypothesis
Psychologist Jorge Conesa-Sevilla has put forward an ecopsychological hypothesis about SP/HH. Ecopsychology is the study of the mind in association with the natural environment. Conesa-Sevilla suggests the uncanny state of mind may be triggered by geological anomalies, and points out that cultures living in the “Ring of Fire,” the geomagnetically unstable areas of Central America, the Pacific Coast of the US, Southern Alaska, Hawaii, and Indonesia, have a much more developed vocabulary for sleep paralysis and its accompanying hallucinations than anywhere else in the world. [12] Many of the indigenous peoples of these territories are dreaming cultures that pay attention to, and actively invite, the “dreaming arts” such as lucid dreaming, reverie and trance states. [13] Given that geomagnetic effects have been shown to alter consciousness, Conesa-Sevilla’s hypothesis is not so unlikely. Similarly, archaeologist Paul Devereux has noted that SP is one state of consciousness among many that “transgress” the normal boundaries of mental imagery (without straying into psychosis), and may be responsible for some mental events interpreted as hauntings. [14] In both of these theories, then, the Stranger can be seen as emerging from local environmental conditions, as well as from the dreamer’s own mind and cultural upbringing.
Sleep Paralysis Interpreted Through History
The phenomenon of the Stranger has occurred throughout recorded history and around the world. This spirit with a thousand faces [15] has a long distinguished history of being the scariest thing around. Many “things that go bump in the night” could take place during SP nightmares. Here are some examples from the history books:
Ghosts and Hauntings
Many tales of hauntings in Europe and the US take place when the witness is lying in bed awake when suddenly he or she feels a presence in the room at the same time notices the onset of paralysis. In many of these classic accounts, an apparition may come into the room, sit on the bed, or start choking the witness with ghostly hands. Other accounts mention fighting with ghosts or specters, and finally “pushing” them off.
Scrooge’s encounter with the ghost of Marley in Charles Dickens’ Christmas Carol is a good example, as this fictional narrative has many SP features, such as feeling of presence in the room, followed by the sound of chains and approaching footsteps, and the narrator’s adamant conclusion that he is awake despite the otherworldly nature of the encounter. Individuals not accustomed to lucid dreaming, iSP and other extraordinary states, do not understand that you can be hallucinating while still in your “right mind,” leading them prematurely to supernatural explanations. [16]
Witchcraft and Demons
In Europe and the US, belief in witchcraft has a long history. According to 17th century American court documents, for example, a woman was tried as a witch because her accuser said that her apparition came into his room at night and climbed on top of him. This was called “witch riding,” and still is in some African-American communities. [17]
In medieval Europe, accounts suggest that demons could sit on the sufferer’s chest and sexually molest them against their will. These demons were known as the Incubus (male) and the Succubus (female). [18] The Malleus Maleficarum (“the Witch’s Hammer”), a guidebook written in 1486 and used to prosecute pagans and witches during the Inquisition, suggests that witches are those who voluntarily submit themselves (and have intercourse) with the Incubus demons. Some succubi legends suggest female demons collected men’s sperm during forced intercourse at night.
Fairies and Little People
The fairy folklore of the British Isles is often framed around an abduction story. The fairy gives the victim a drink or otherwise induces paralysis, and then absconds with the victim to fairyland, always returning him safely to his bed. [19] In some fairy tales, however, children are stolen and never returned. [20] Incidentally, fairies were also blamed for paralysis in livestock, which was called “fairy-riding.”
In Norse mythology, black elves known as Svartálfar were feared because of their paralyzing arrows, called “elf shot.” These dwarf-like creatures were known for sitting on the sleeper’s chest and whispering horrible things into the dreamer’s ear. In German, the word for nightmare, “Albtraum” still translates to “elf dream.” Sleep paralysis entities seem to consist more of the “earth fairies,” such as trolls, dwarves, and wood nymphs, as opposed to the more delicate winged fairies and water nixies.
Vampires
This passage from Bram Stoker’s Dracula speaks for itself:
There was in the room the same thin white mist that I had before discovered . . . I felt the same vague terror which had come to me before and the same sense of some presence . . . Then indeed, my heart sank within me: Beside the bed, as if had stepped out of the mist—or rather as if the mist had turned into his figure, for it had completely disappeared—stood a tall, thin man, all in black. I knew him at once from the description of the others. The waxen face: the high aquiline nose, on which the light fell in a thin white line; the parted red lips, with the sharp white teeth showing between; and the red eyes . . . I would have screamed out, only that I was paralyzed. [21]
Sound familiar? The detail about the mist transforming into the dark figure is a clue that we’ll come back to soon.
Image credit: "Succubi" by Kradium, used courtesy of Creative Commons license.
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- Cheyne et al. 1999.
- Marquet et al. 1996, cited in Rock 2004, p. 52
- Winkelman 2004, p. 60. Neurotheology moves far beyond this idea, and has sponsored some well-meaning but ultimately reductive quests, such as the search for the “God gene.” Winkelman stays within his warrant, and does not comment on the ontological reality of spirits, only their phenomenal reality beyond the cultural source hypothesis which reduces SP visions to fairy tale replays.
- Hobson Dreaming; an Introduction to the science of sleep, 2002. Hobson and other dream researchers still debate if REM = dreams, but we can safely say that most dreams we remember come from this physiological state.
- The best introduction to Jung is his autobiography Memories, Dreams, and Reflections. Hillman book the Soul’s Code, while not explicitly about dreams, showcases his theory of the personality and its inner workings.
- Bly; A Little Book on the Human Shadow. 1998.
- See Chalquist's Terrapsychology, 2007 for more about myth, landscape, and unconscious acting-out.
- Sherwood; "Relationship between the hypnagogic/hynogogic states and reports of anomalous experiences." Journal of parapsychology, 66, pp. 127-150. 2002, p. 136. Stan Krippner and Montague’s Ullman’s work at the Dream Laboratory of the Maimonides Medical Center in the 1970s has proven to be the zenith of scientific work on psychic dreams; but the evidence is well known to lifelong dreamers.
- Hunt; Multiplicity of Dreams 1989.
- Takeuchi et al. Isolated sleep paralysis elicited by sleep interruption. Sleep, 15, pp. 217-225, 1992. The authors of this study propose that two thirds of ghost tales, if taken seriously, may occur when the witness is in sleep paralysis, highway hypnosis, REM sleep disorder, or other clinically diagnosed diseases and syndromes.
- Young and Goudet, Being Changed: The Anthropology of Extraordinary Experience. Ontario, Canada; Broadview Press.1994.
- Sevilla; Geomagnetic, cross-cultural and occupational faces of sleep paralysis: and ecological perspective. Sleep and Hypnosis, 2, pp. 105-111. 2000.
- Tedlock 2001 in Bulkeley’s Dreams: a reader on the religious, cultural, and psychological dimensions of dreaming.
- Devereux 2001, Haunted Land, p. 190. Sherwood (2002) also discusses the correlation between hypnagogic hallucinations and anomalous experiences including telepathy, pyrokinesis, past life experiences, and near death experiences.
- My apologies to Joseph Campbell, who, to the delight of readers and disdain of academic folklorists everywhere, integrated Jungian psychology with the expressions of folklore, myth, and ritual. See the Power of Myth.
- I don’t mean to reduce all uncanny phenomena to physical brain states such as SP/HH. Rather, I suggest that uncanny states, which sometimes include content that cannot be known by rational means or any psychological process we currently understand, have material correlates. See Proud (2009) for experiences about the paranormal elements of SP/HH. For a review of the scientific inquiry into psi, ESP and dream telepathy, I recommend Charles Tart’s The End of Materialism.
- Hufford 1982, The Terror That Comes in the Night, p. 221.
- Jones 1951, On the Nightmare, p. 82. Jones was a student of Freud’s, and interpreted many SP experiences as repressed sexual urges.
- Briggs 1976, Encyclopedia of Fairies.
- Froud 1998, Good fairies, bad fairies. A whimsical guide, mixed with authentic folklore research and captivating illustrations.
- Stoker, Dracula, p. 267 as quoted in Hufford 1982, p 228.
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Very cool! I only had one
thanks for the kind words,
Still deciphering the memories
MM: Thank you for sharing this.
R. Hurd: As best as I can remember, I had many visits from the Stranger when I was a young boy, between 4-8 yrs of age. The interesting thing, I believe, is the reason why I stopped having these visits. My parents divorce forced me to 'become the man of the house' when I was 8 yrs old and I feel this is what cut my ability to sense the presence of the Stranger. Indeed, I was paralyzed and filled with fear during those younger years, but reflecting back on those memories and trying to break the code within said memories, I realize now that the Stranger was not much of a threat to me. "He" was perhaps watching over me. It has only been within the past five years that I have trying to figure all this out. I look forward to reading and sharing more stories.
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Managing Sleep Paralysis
When this happens to me I try to clasp my hands, as I once read that to control your dreams look at your hands. The act of clasping hands seems to stop the attack.
Also check if there is alot of electrical sockets in the room one sleeps in. As much as I like the cultural stories (I studied anthropolgy) I think too much electrical pollution causes sleep paralysis as it winds up the amygdala when we're trying to get a good night's sleep.
I'm at a loss why other cultures report this as well. It could well be that some people are sensitive to geological faults or magnectic fields. I hope that doesn't sound wacky. When the attacks start I find fighting the unseen attacker seems to give it more strength. I'm beginning to suspect I'm fighting myself.
Brilliant article. To everyone who has endured this frightening sensation your not alone and it can be managed. I'd rather I didn't get it but when someone else describes this and you mention it's sleep paralysis the look of joy on their face that they're not going mad is very heart warming.
Hope it works for everyone
Worst SP Experience: Dead Baby
REM sleep and trasitioning to an awakened pseudo REM state.
I've been having night terrors involving demon/spirits/monsters/faeries since as
far back as infancy. The first of these I recall occurred the first night I was placed in my own bedroom (in a crib) to sleep alone. My parents waited until I had become tired and brought me into my room. I fell asleep. I do not know how long I was asleep but I seemed to be awake.Tiny little kites of all colors were flying around me I was at first amazed & excited but soon I realized the kites were diving at me and taunting me and no matter what I did I couldn't move. Knowing I was paralysed I became more frightened as I wanted to strike out at the little impish tormenters.
Finally struggling enabled me to scream out. Immediately I some how realized it was all over my parents came in to comfort me. It took what seemed like 3 hours
until I could settle back down and fall asleep. I would have these dreams at least once or twice a month sometimes the tormenters were terrifying demons or monsters usually males who would try to cut, maim, kill or rape me. The results would usually be my prevailing over the tormenters. Upon waking realizing I actually couldn't move I'd scream out and it would be over. These progressed from my
ability to act forcefully in the dreams to actually moving my arms and legs freely in these dreams. In a recent sleep study I was diagnosed with inappropriate REM
sleep. Very occasionally the opponent would be a beautiful female and the act of passionate coitus would take place however I cannot recall ever actually climaxing.
I have come to realize the symbolism involved with my nightmares
as being issues I'm grappling with. Sometimes they are horrid other tim es ecstatic but very entertaining. My poor wife must suffer through the thrashing and the screaming. I do fear that I may hurt her unwillingly some time.
OBE launch pad
I've had so many episodes of
Luciferian concept
Great article, will check out that ebook .
I had a sensational SP last year, where I was removed from the source. No mind altering substances were involved or alcohol was involved, prior to the SP. In essence it felt like a Luciferian shadow that I had asked to take me on a higher consciousness trip.
I was disembodied for a full fortnight. All speech sounded like an echo, friends and family all mentioned that I felt different and distant - although not in an aloof way. Everything was slow, action, reaction, no joy or sadness was felt, in fact no emotion was felt. I only ate nuts and voraciously read about this Lucifer character.
A fortnight later I had another SP and I asked for him to leave. He refused and that's when the 'battle' began. The next morning, although I felt 'normal' things seemed forever altered; and to top it off an Elvis looking Hindu mystic entered my store and announced that he is here because I called him...
I had an SP experience a
Hiss Pop Buzz
excellent! the hiss pop buzz scene is a common part of the sleep paralysis/hypnagogic hallucination (SP/HH) experience. OBEs, "night flights," and guided journeys can go through an auditory "portal." Personally, I sometimes hear the crinkling paper bags, bells, chimes, and, strangely enough, downtempo space rock like early Orb. Others hear mechanical or technological sounds that are related to "communication" -- such as telephones, modems, and the clack of a typewriter.
and Sarazen --- that is deeply weird. your experience brings up the point: what is the true identity of these "Strangers" -- and like the old vampire lore, be careful who you let pass the threshold.
Sounds and paranormal
Great article. I just came across this today on Daily Grail about sounds heard during "boundary experiences":
http://dailygrail.com/Essays/2010/4/Her-Sweet-Murmur
"There are many exceedingly strange experiences which happen to humans, from interactions with paranormal entities and unidentified objects, to near-death encounters. These are often grouped together under the title of 'boundary experiences,' sometimes 'Forteana,' and sometimes simply as 'the paranormal.' But this grouping is generally one of convenience, and each element of this group is, for the most part, considered to be a separate area. However, this may not necessarily be the case, as a scan of the literature, and individual experiences, will attest.
In order to explore the topic with some precision, I would like to concentrate on one particular aspect of boundary experiences — the sounds heard by experiencers which accompany the phenomenon. Cross-referencing these seemingly disparate experiences via their aural aspects yields surprising results, with implications that are quite staggering for our modern conception of reality."
Hauntings
Just last night...
Stun Stunned Stunning
I once heard that in the Pyramids there were chambers that promoted this "semi-samadhi" state ... to conquer fear ... dark, quiet still.
In Sanskrit there is a term "Caitanya" ... which refers to character or characterization ... according to the Vedic mystics ... all has character expression ... even subatomic particles.
The difference between a state of paralysis and a state of Samadhi is 'but the fear of unknown "personality" or the spirit of the unknown
Yet there is a type of yogic ecstasy called "Stamba" ... where one becomes like a post .. unable to function on one level, yet the subtle symptoms of transcendental humors or rasa begin to increase as one has to "bear beyond comprehension" ... their ecstatic state of being
stevenwithaph -- I would
stevenwithaph -- I would suggest that when you feel a "spell" coming on, to take steps to ground yourself before going to bed. You want to feel safe in your sleeping quarters. lock the door, put on some relaxing music, read for pleasure, whatever you do before bed to feel safe. have courage that the little girl peeking over the bed is not going to harm you... she is part of a dreamstate, but her reality in that realm demands respect and trust
loto.kid -- one of the surprising findings in my research is how SP comes when we are at life crossroads. stress, anxiety and big changes can bring it on. now I don't know yer situation, but there's two basic ways of dealing with the alien. one is to build courage to say NO, and work on creating safer boundaries. Spirituality can help with this, but also any mental practice that reminds us that we have the power to keep our boundaries. The other way is to relax and surrender to the "alien" -- reminding yourself that this is SP, this is a dream, and I cannot be hurt -- the alien will shift as you develop trust into a more recognizable form. What happens next is truly unknown, but it could be a creative blast, a sexual epiphany, a spiritual encounter, a deep recovered memory.... this is the nature of transpersonal states. i deal with this process in great detail in my ebook.
Pippalayana -- thanks for sharing these perspectives. I have studied cognitive archaeology for years (I also have a degree in anthropology and worked as an archaeologist for a decade in the US) and can verify that there are many sacred sites around the world that are designed to illicit altered dream and vision states. I'm not familiar with the pyramid chambers in particular, but I would not be surprised at your suggestions. most archaeologists assume psychedelics are involved with these chambers, caves and grottos but most archaeologists also are not aware that dream, SP and meditation vision states are more reliable to achieve and easier to control than trances induced by hallucinogens.
My mother and father are
Sleep paralysis linked to family death
I'm always in awe
totally in awe of the profound way that sleep paralysis and its attendant vision states affects people's lives.
John Topp -- thanks for that link -- great article, and it does a great job putting SP in context with other extraordinary vision states like NDEs and OBEs. Archonicus may like the attention paid to the sounds in these states.
Jeff -- great question: Are they shadow aspects of myself, or some kind of outside intrusion, looking for acceptance and reconciliation? My take is that this boundary between self and other kinda breaks down in these liminal states. it's a both-and. self and other. the entities wear garbs we can recognize -- or you could say we project the appearance onto them so we feel comfortable. Ayahuasca visions and images from ancient cave art often depict half-animal and half-human creatures too. But what are they after? I think it depends. healing, giving or asking for information, connection, possibly malevolent intent: all these things are possible in the dreamworld beyond our puny egos.
little lightening bolt: your story deserves attention -- thanks for sharing it. this act of "transgression" from the dream realm to the waking world, witnessed by two people simultaneously, is not as rare as we'd like to believe. it happens often in psychedelic sessions, as well as trance dances witnessed by anthropologists. however, there's always room for interpretation. like you seem to agree, calling these things "demons" is a cultural label that can be limiting. the Tulpa idea is a bit reductionist too, although it is a cool idea that may explain some poltergeist phenomena. I agree with you: A Healthy respect for autonomous entities is a good starting place for meeting these experiences authentically -- this was Jung's position too. whether or not they are "ontologically" real, they are certainly psychologically real, and our psychology is full of autonomous voices that know things we don't know. the mechanism for this action is beyond the comprehension of the scientific materialist paradigm. but we're chipping away at that bit by bit...
lacey -- my heart goes out to you. what a powerful story of the emotional connections that are stronger than our grasp of spacetime. I've seen this same effect. My wife once had a similar panic attack for no reason "something's wrong." she called her first brother -- he was fine. and then her second brother -- no answer. half an hour later he calls back: he had just been in a terrifying car accident. he was OK luckily. Not sure if you're into this, but you could try to do a dream incubation for your grandmother, and meet her in a dream to touch base again. If you have SP and psychic events, you're probably a powerful dreamer too. :)
being some one who has
being some one who has experienced many shared experiences during entheogenic sessions and ceremonies, I can say that one cannot begin to doubt the ontological reality of what is happening, even if it is paradigm shattering. One has to work from their experience back down to concensus reality so to say... in others words before we psychologize the phenomena we must take it at face value and work our way to understnading it with out explaining it away for sure.
thanks!
Thanks
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The ability to control the eyes and eyelid movement during SP/HH
Thank you for this wonderful article! It is true that most accounts of sleep paralysis tell of 'others' with human like qualities, but I have also had several episodes in which there are non human presences [bugs, camels, arctic bears] earthquakes, windows opening and shutting, things in the room falling over onto me, the bedroom door slowly opening with random items being slipped in, and so forth. I also find that sometimes I can snap out of these episodes by first wiggling my fingers and toes. Once you get the extremities going the whole limbs can follow, it's a matter of willing/jerking yourself awake. Ability to do this increases upon doing simple body relaxation exercises during awake time in which one scans one's consciousness through the whole body from head to toes.
I have found over the years of having had innumerable such experiences [once i realize that i am going through SP] that the 'fear factor' can be transmuted...meaning, the shadowy figures, when faced and accepted, can transform into other things...such as dark mists transforming into cuddly animals and the like, or just plain disappear. It is very interesting for experimentation. It is helpful that during such times the ability to close the eyelids is still available [one part of the body that seems to remain unparalyzed!], and slowing down the breath helps as well, if indeed the breath can be controlled [as for the choking/being choked, I feel that it is the shock factor, but if you are lucky enough to be able to calm yourself down enough breathing and breath control are significant factors in changing what is being perceived (ie 'WHO' is choking you, whether you are being choked at all) as well as in waking up.]
Do you know why the ability to close and open the eyelids persists through paralysis of the rest of the body? Is there anyone who has reported being unable to close thier physical eyelids?
I had often SP, with great
I had often SP, with great struggle to awake and move: a very liminar and uncomfortable state ! There is a site where i had many of them, when I slept there, in the afternoon: it is a corner with a sofa, inside a building belonging to an old factory, where under the structure flow a natural stream of water.
I had to fight strenuosly against this paralizing state, which hampered me to overcome the oniric reality where i felt trapped.
This happened to me when I was younger
I had sleep paralysis
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This happened to me...
a very long time ago, 1965 to be exact (yeah, I'm THAT old.) I was pregnant with my first child and I had laid down for a nap during the afternoon.
I opened my eyes and could see but I couldn't move. I felt a presence, and just as in the words of the author my mind was screaming "Threat, threat!". I actually felt someone touching me, but couldn't move at all. I closed my eyes tight and didn't open them again. I was absolutely terrified!
Then for some reason, a feeling of peace came over me and I could swear in my mind someone told me all would be fine. In my naivete I thought perhaps it was my unborn child, sending me thoughts of love and care...silly, I know, but I fell back asleep easily without a care in the world.
It wasn't until just a few years ago that I learned what that experience was, and it was the only time it occured.
Fear
I like the idea that SP
I like the idea that SP could be the onset of spontaneous OBE. In this context the "demons" sitting on ones chest may represent the fear of leaving ones body, the fear of supernatural phenomena, of being spirit. It could also be represenative of our attachment to the dense material existance.
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Sleep Paralysis
Recreating SP Mythology in Western culture
Little Lightning Bolt: regarding the ontological reality of spirits, I agree -- we must move forward from the Mysterion position. Most here would agree that the SP visions are more than a "dream" in the ordinary sense of the word. The shared experiences, the uncanny information, and the synchroncities that follow SP indicate to me that SP visions have a collective function that is not just about our personal psychologies. However, the vision still takes forms from the dreamer, and many typical dream-related aspects such as projection of the undesirable, fear being mirrored as external horrors, cultural-specific imagery, and the role of our personal history and experience in relationship to trauma, death anxiety, and other numinous encounters. It's all wrapped up in a sticky bundle!
Amaturian -- it's totally possible that sounds from the external environment are being heard and reinterpreted when in SP/HH. Research with REM sleep shows that we selectively take in sense information, including smells and sounds. But the drip drip can also occur on its own... For me, it's a sign that I'm going through a threshold when these kinds of auditory hallucinations are heard.
CrossChop -- yes the lack of good research is maddening. Besides the overview I give in my ebook, read Hufford's "The terror that comes through the night" for info about cultural variability as well as Jorge Conesa Sevilla's "Wrestling with Ghosts" for insight into lucid dreaming and shamanism and SP. A young writer from Australian just published a book on the paranormal aspects "Dark Intrusion" by Louis Proud. Finally, check out J. Cheyne's research from the University of Waterloo: http://watarts.uwaterloo.ca/~acheyne/S_P.html
Haji -- thanks for mentioning the bugs and non-human HHs. This article focuses on the Stranger apparition which only occurs @ 20% of the time. The other hallucinations may be more common, but we don't have good data. They seem to be more related to fear and emotions rather than a full-blown encounter with an autonomous entity. About eyedlids: can we open them/close them? I don't know. Some researchers have witnessed SP occurring in the lab with eyes open, but most of the time it seems our eyes are closed, even if we are "seeing" our room. Most people don't think about if their eyelids are paralyzed or not, so I'm not sure about the success rate. >
Gary Lachman -- great to hear your perspective. My wife was raised Swedenborgian so I'm pretty familiar (and astounded) about the pivotal role this scientist turned mystic had on our thinkers from Goethe to Jung. (and more astounding is how most of the contemporary Swedenborgian culture has no interest in his dream science abilities and visioning abilities). Swedenborg lays it out -- how to contact angels and spirits, which ones to trust, and how to get home.
Jeff Charest: thanks for making the connection to your SP encounters and your spiritual crisis at the time. This is not uncommon! Call it stress, call it an "opening," regardless, SP comes during these life crossroads. And your observation of the Stranger being scared is wonderful. Nature turns towards us the face we turn towards it. Working with fear and expectation can shift the scared/scary stranger apparition into its baseline form... not saying it will be Disneyfied in puppies and sunshine, but at least become more communicatory. I write more about this on my website: http://dreamstudies.org/2010/02/26/spiritual-sleep-paralysis/
Muzio -- flowing water is a known sleep disruptor/vision producer. Many ancient greek temples were built over aquifers for this purpose, it seems. Paul Devereux has also looked into the relationship of aquifers to ghost hauntings and the construction of the megaliths on the British Isles. so cool!
Joe Sansonese -- great info: I didn't know about the Homer connection. I wonder if some of these stone chairs from antiquity also lean back (like a semi-reclined beach chair) which would really cinch the connection between their function to promote visions/dreams/SP.
Strelitzia: this is the first time I've heard of ayahuasca healing SP but I'm not surprised! There's some excellent research being done linking lucid dreaming to ayahuasca visions too, in terms of brain synchronization similiarites on the 40Hz level. See Frank Echenhofer's article here about this line of work: http://www.shiftinaction.com/node/7190
RedHawk: wonderful story of how peace descended after the initial terror from SP. thanks for sharing!
SparrowTree: ditto, your advice to face the intruder is right on. (unless you happen to be Hawaiian, where cultural stories of the Night Marchers indicate that if you meet eyes with the entities, you die. There's also a similar story among Cambodians, who believe that SP is related the sudden death complex -- it's noted in Hmong refugee populations). But in general, learning to deal with fear allows us to see things more clearly. Face the intruder -- but with gratitude in your heart and mind. Be willing to learn, to give, and to assist. This is the proper attitudee for dealing with SP spirits.... cordially.
Thanks everyone! This has been a great experience for me to discuss this topic with such a kickass community.
"Little Lightning Bolt:
My point is that we cannot always make the bold assumption that what is experienced by an individual in these states is a "dream" or "vision" as you put it. Not to down play the importance and reality as well as the mystery of either. But to push the notion that this is all we are dealing with here places a bit of a limit on the potential we have to understanding these phenomena.
These experiences may very well be dreams or visions for many people. But they might not be dreams or visions for every one. We really do not know in every case what IS actually occuring here, and so we cannot place these experiences in the catagory of shared collective visons, or hallucinations. I personally do not beleive that my parents had a shared vision, hallucination or dream, and I do not doubt what it was that they experienced was dense and physical reality... what it was though, and to explain it is beyond me. Admiting that I think is the first step to allowing our selves to discover things and learn things we did not previously know.
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Out of place REM?
What is real anyways?
Little Lightning Bolt, sounds like semantics are bogging us down here. I simply mean "dream/vision" because we know SP occurs during REM sleep or REM intrusion. the brain signature stuff is a material correlate in my reckoning, but doesn't mean that what is experienced is not "ontologically unreal." An analogue would be the silly proposition that the shared visions during an ayahuasca ceremony are the results frontolateral brain synchronization due to the effects of metabolized DMT. these are different ways of accounting for the Phenomenon. Material correlates in no way discount or discredit first-hand experience.. they are complementary in other words. but as we communicate these things to each other in the sitting circle, the question of reality always comes down to: who is your hermeneutic circle and what are the values upheld in this circle? This is where the discussion begins about what is real, what is myth, and what is fantasy. In the West, we're used to breaking up reality into waking/dreaming, but in many other cultures this is seen as a false dichotomy. SP has a pretty intense way of mixing it all up so we have to rethink these basic considerations in the 21st century.
Crutches, most experience SP coming out of sleep, but some experience it going to sleep. It is REM but "misplaced" REM, usually precipitated by erratic sleep patterns, insomnia, jetlag, or other sleep hygiene situations including stress, life changes, and spiritual emergence. some people like you have SP often for no discernible reason. it's called RISP - repetitive isolated sleep paralysis. ("isolated" because SP comes without the presence of narcolepsy or sleep apnea). It's not uncommon to have it as often as you do, but you may be able to reduce it through sleep hygiene techniques. But as you say -- these can be adventurous too, so you can learn how to use SP as a launching pad to OBES, lucid dreams, and other forms of extraordinary dreaming. The danger about astral projection....well, what you believe can seriously construct the frames of the experience, so the question is really : are you afraid to break away from your physical body? Accounting for fears and making conscious your beliefs can make the trip into SP and other extraordinary dreams a less bumpy ride.
Well put... I love boiling
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Reclaiming our projections
I agree. Stating our biases is crucial. Even knowing them is an improvement over much discussion on this topic. As a dream scholar I sometimes forget that for many "dream" = "fantasy" as if dreams are full of rainbows and bunnies and Freud's cigar.
Transpersonal anthropology rocks.... glad you're carrying the torch forward in. Have you checked out the Society for the Anthropology of Consciousness? We are a group of academics, independent scholars, and consciousness explorers who are still doing the fieldwork but with an action approach: to help shift the global culture towards sustainability while nurturing what is left of global cultural diversity. This group also has strong support for research about the "ontology of spirits."
SAC has a facebook page of course: http://facebook.com/anthropologyofconsciousness
Be great to cross-pollinate SAC with RS.
Lemon Lime bitters! Awesome!
Lemon Lime bitters! Awesome! lol
yeah the last i recall my freind bonnie glass/coffin was on the board i think for that org.
You know I really need to join that organization, its the type of work that really needs peer support because there are so few of us transpersonal anthropologists actually out there.
Its true for many the "dream" lacks reality and has even been used to describe unrealistic thinking. To be a dreamer is to be one that is disconnected from reality. Inorder for that to change it has to be clearly confronted.
Good talking with you! I will join the FB page.
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SP and Initiation
Hey Childofdance34,
yes, you've nailed it. SP peaks in the early 20s, then comes back in waves, generally in the mid 30s and again in the mid 50s. on average. Could be changes in brain chemistry. Also is probably related to the major life shifts happening at these times. Role changes, housing changes, initiations into adulthood, parenthood, mature adulthood, etc.
The first chapter of Sleep Paralysis: A Dreamer's Guide deals with ways to reduce the lifstyle habits and sleep hygiene issues that promote SP. In general, try reducing or eliminating caffeine, reducing alcohol consumption (especially in the evenings), removing electronics from the bedroom (just in case electromagnetism plays a role -- the research is sparse), going to bed at the same time everynight (as much as possible), and incorporating a relaxation ritual of at least 30 minutes before going to bed. reading, relazing music, meditation, relaxation yoga (not hatha or anything that builds heat), journaling, etc. if you have a spiritual practice like prayer, also recommended, espccially something that incorporates breathwork and the feeling of being protected and safe. try not to have arguments before bed, or watch violent imagery/play violent games before bed. this is all about protecting your space. it works.
Instead of TV,try a neutral whitenoise maker like a box fan or a white noise machine if you can spring for it (sounds of babbling brook=good, sounds of infomercials=bad).
Because you're in your 20s, and I went through a similar process, I'd also recommend working on building courage and maintaining boundaries in waking life and in SP. this is totally my projection onto your life: so if it doesn't resonate, ignore it. But i've found that at this age, the central conflict is finding your voice, finding your autonomy, and working on issues of self-reliance in general. so take a warrior attitude. the demons in SP, in my opinion, can not harm you (I'm assuming you are not a sufferer of sleep apnea or narcolepsy). take heart, these visions are the path. if you're being tormented by creatures, try communicating with them your boundaries. Breathe regularly if you find yourself hyperventilating. and if you want ouyt, Wiggle your finger to break the paralysis. there's more ways to break it --- I think I'll make a blog post about that soon on dreamstudies.org because I'm getting a lot of questions about that.
in short: this too shall pass!
A Scary Thing