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Loneliness has long been associated with a variety of debilitating mental and physical diseases.  Now, a new study reveals that it has the potential to spread as rapidly as the common cold throughout groups of friends, family, etc. A team of researchers from Harvard, The University of Chicago, and The University of California recently published these findings in, “Alone in the Crowd: The Structure and Spread of Loneliness in a Large Social Network.”

Using data collected from the Framingham Heart and Offspring studies that began in 1948 and span over three generations of participants, researchers were better able understand the spread of loneliness via traditional social networks. The researchers explain that the results of their study indicate loneliness occurs in clusters, extends up to three degrees of separation, is disproportionately represented at the periphery of social networks, and spreads through a contagious process.

People who suffer from feelings of loneliness tend to associate and identify with other lonely people. When one lonely person conveys their outlook of isolation to another, they are influencing the other to reflect similar views on a third potentially lonely party.  It's a vicious cycle--yet contrary to what being lonely implies, the lonely person is not isolated--rather their emotions are intimately connected to the emotions of others. By resigning themselves to a position of loneliness, they push themselves into the outer reaches of their social network and unknowingly slowly catalyze others they have shared their views with to follow suit.  

 

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Not just loneliness is contagious...

ALL emotions are. From hatred to joy, emotion spreads like fire.

on the other hand...

http://www.spiritualityhealth.com/spirit/archives/actually-it’s-happiness-loves-company

Truth

I agree wholeheartedly with this assertion - all emotions are indeed contagious. Maybe it has something to do with limbic resonance, the capacity for empathy and non-verbal connection that is present in animals, and that forms the basis of our social connections as well as the foundation for various modes of therapy and healing.

 

http://www.theemotionmachine.com

yeah

yet another social disease.I donno, it begins to sound right on, then it becomes a self fulfilling diagnosis.Does this really cure the situation, or petrify it? I agree forget swine flues and those who make then them lonely labs.

GOP strategy: Selfish, Separate, Scared

The product of fear-mongering = Loneliness.

The solution:  return to real patriotism, by supporting our society and culture, our people, arts, the real parts of our lives that matter, our people, instead of the purely profit-driven materialism promoted by current Wall Street "greed is good" thinking.

Unfortunately, the current education system is partly at fault for creating corporate automatons, by teaching the "skills" that help those that are all too eager to sell their souls climb that corporate ladder, as if that's somehow virtuous. Our society really needs to return to what really matters: its people. The focus and priorities should be returned to virtue, integrity, honesty, and compassion for each other.

And, obviously, I'm not stumping for the great maybe possibly you can keep dreaming, hOpe, either. We need a radical departure from the status, corporate sellout, quo.

A step in the right direction (to combat the loneliness epidemic), something I read:

"Stand up - Speak up. If you see or hear someone being abused, being harassed, getting beaten up or taken advantage of by the government, or other ne'er do wells, DO YOUR PART!! Stand up and speak up for your neighbors, co-workers, and fellow Americans. United we stand, divided we fall. Let us unite."

 

"The care of human life and happiness, and not their destruction, is the first and only legitimate object of good government." - Thomas Jefferson

 

 This article really inspired me to this one very important statement (though gets caught up in other issues)

http://original.antiwar.com/eland/2009/10/20/is-adulation-of-the-militar...

 

  "Being genuinely patriotic means supporting the country’s society and culture."

all emotions look for company

Loneliness, depressives, down-trodden and also the happy find their likes. We look to validate and energize our patterns. A bit of awareness and willingness to let go of stuck patterns is all it takes to transcend this strange seeking.

http://www.beyond-karma.com